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tea—and—toast:

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transhumanisticpanspermia:

i have limited sympathy for people who get told “no” after a public proposal because public proposals are pretty much emotionally abusive

like seriously

if you think it’s kinda cute, you can discuss it beforehand and then do a staged one later

but putting…

If someone did a really massive public proposal to me I would punch them in the face. Depends who you’re proposing to and how public I guess, like it might be ok be ok in front of people you know but imagine being proposed to in the football stadiums like they do In America it would be horrific I’d freak out. I think you have to really know the person you’re proposing to before you try something like that bc some people would absolutely love a public proposal and I don’t want everyone to be put off doing that by the OP, but you don’t want anyone going through massive public humiliation or anxiety.

Well exactly, you can’t make a sweeping statement like that, because some people would adore a public proposal, and if they are close enough to get married then the person proposing would know exactly how to do it!

Exactly. Can’t wait till you propose to Charlie in September, hope you’ve got it all planned out. 😏

Throw and egg at him? ‘COMMITMENT’

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transhumanisticpanspermia:

i have limited sympathy for people who get told “no” after a public proposal because public proposals are pretty much emotionally abusive

like seriously

if you think it’s kinda cute, you can discuss it beforehand and then do a staged one later

but putting…

If someone did a really massive public proposal to me I would punch them in the face. Depends who you’re proposing to and how public I guess, like it might be ok be ok in front of people you know but imagine being proposed to in the football stadiums like they do In America it would be horrific I’d freak out. I think you have to really know the person you’re proposing to before you try something like that bc some people would absolutely love a public proposal and I don’t want everyone to be put off doing that by the OP, but you don’t want anyone going through massive public humiliation or anxiety.

Well exactly, you can’t make a sweeping statement like that, because some people would adore a public proposal, and if they are close enough to get married then the person proposing would know exactly how to do it!